How to hint to you man time to tie the knot

MarinaEllas · 02-13-2007, 08:49 PM

Ive been seeing a guy for the past three years on and off. I know this is my knight in shining armor I feel it. The past two months we have got a lot closer and I actually want to marry him but Im not sure if he wants to get married or not. So ladies do you think I should tell him that I want to get married or not. I have hinted it to him but he just changes the subject real fast and acts like I did not even talk about it.

Hellenika · 02-13-2007, 10:08 PM

For me, the guy better be begging, but that's me
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Although I am married, I didn't have to hint. You shouldn't either. If he wants to marry you he will ask you. Besides, I like throwing that back in my husbands face now when he has a problem with me. I say, "you shouldn't have asked me to marry you then" :D

Seriously, my opinion is, let him do it. Let him come after you. If he's really a knight in shining armor, that's what he'll do.

Another thing, to maybe test the waters, start drifting from him a bit. There are other guys out there. See how he reacts. The way he reacts might give you clues as to where he stands.

No reason for you to be getting treated like that. I would find it very rude of him to be changing the subject and all that. Of course, I have a horrible temper. And again, that's me. Good luck to you Marina.

Ellinida2006 · 02-15-2007, 07:22 AM

Well if you really want to get married to him I suggest letting him know how it is. Tell him that your getting older and dont want to be an older mother. See what he tells you. If its not what you want to hear then drop him like a hot phone!

MarinaEllas · 02-15-2007, 07:38 AM

Ill wait another week and Ill give it to him hard! Thanks gals.

enicko · 02-15-2007, 01:41 PM

Μy opinion ladies is dont try floating away, it doesnt show respect.second this should be a mutual thing no need to play games.

Sorry for intruding ladies I just had to write

:)

Hellenika · 02-15-2007, 02:16 PM

And it sounds respectful Enicko how this guy is acting? Changing the topic when it's bought up and pretending it wasn't mentioned even? I think that's beyond rude. He can say I dont want to talk now or whatever, but to ignore it?

DespoThessalo · 02-15-2007, 03:28 PM

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And it sounds respectful Enicko how this guy is acting? Changing the topic when it's bought up and pretending it wasn't mentioned even? I think that's beyond rude. He can say I dont want to talk now or whatever, but to ignore it?

I agree with Hellenika on this. It is very rude. Marina xeston kale yparxoun pollous andres 10 yia kathe gynaika!

GreekGal · 02-15-2007, 03:41 PM

Dont drop him bring it up to him again. Some men are nervous when they hear about marriage.

Hellenika · 02-16-2007, 09:51 AM

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Dont drop him bring it up to him again. Some men are nervous when they hear about marriage.

So when should she give up then? She's supposed to sit around and keep asking him while he just ignores it? For how long should this go on for?

MarinaEllas · 02-18-2007, 08:39 AM

Well ladies I had a chat with him and this time he just told me he has been thinking about it but doesnt know if he is ready for marriage yet financially! I got him where I wanted to. He was about to get some but I stopped in the process and brough it up lmao xaxaxa.
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